I am having an affair with my boss's wife, but now…

Question:

I am a 33-year-old IT professional. A few months ago I met my boss's wife at an office dinner. I was shocked to find out she was my former classmate. I already had a crush on her. We exchanged numbers, after which we kept in touch via phone and social media. After a few days she told me that she is not happy with her husband because he is older than her and is not able to satisfy her physically. Slowly we came closer and had physical relations. It has been four months and I am very upset. This has had a huge impact on my personal and professional life.

Answer:

In a situation like this, when personal and professional life is at stake, it is natural to feel upset and confused. It feels good to connect with college friends, old memories are refreshed. Also, excitement increases. But it is very important to stay in the present. We would advise you to stay away from the boss's wife for a few days and analyze your thoughts and feelings. You can decide whether to leave. After this, meet your boss's wife and tell her your decision and why you did it.

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