Tried different positions, but not able to enjoy sex, what should I do?

By News Update On Sep 24, 2024

Question: My husband and I have tried to have sex many times but have not been successful. This is the first time for both of us. We have tried different positions but nothing has worked. We have done a lot of foreplay and oral sex. I think my clitoris is small or we get nervous but it is causing discomfort to both of us. What can we do to enjoy sex?

Answer: It is very rare that the penis does not enter the vagina. You should visit a gynecologist. Both of you need to improve your technique. Visit a specialist who can give you the right advice.

'Anal sex hurts, any medicine?'

Question: I am gay and I have recently tried solo sex. Also, a few days ago I had anal sex with my male partner, which caused me a lot of pain. Can you suggest something for this pain?

Answer: Local anesthetic ointments are available at drug stores. Apply it around the anus. It will work within 15 minutes, but condoms must be used during sex.