Waiting for someone's message all day. When his name appeared on the screen, a smile appeared on his face. Frustration sinks in as she delays in replying. Does this mean you are in love with that person? What is love at all? It is said that sometimes what we think of as deep attraction or love for someone is actually just an addiction to personality or attention. Isn't that happening with you? Let's find out today how to understand if someone is attracted to someone or is addicted to attention.
1. A quick reply makes you happy, but a late reply can ruin your evening. If your mood changes repeatedly based on the attention someone else gives you, then realize that you have unknowingly become overly dependent on that person's approval.
2. Your values, interests or expectations may be very different from each other. Yet, whenever he compliments you or makes you feel special, those differences suddenly seem insignificant to you. Sometimes feeling wanted by someone endears that person to you.
3. When he is close at hand, you feel relatively relaxed. But the moment he moves away, you start thinking about him incessantly. Their sudden out of reach may not be an expression of any deep feelings, but it is causing anxiety in you.
4. You spend hours wondering if he likes you, if you're attractive enough, or if you're doing something wrong. But have you ever wondered if you enjoy being in His presence at all? A relationship isn't just about trying to get someone else's approval, it's about deciding whether or not that person is capable of meeting your needs.
5.Honestly, do you miss talking to him, or just someone who always checks in on you? If 'good morning' messages or compliments seem more important to you than a real conversation, you need to take a look at your own feelings.