Guide for married couples: It is important to check these things, otherwise you may regret later.

Marriage is one of the biggest and important decisions of life. It is not just a relationship between two people, but a union of two thoughts, two families and two different lives. Often, people get so caught up in wedding preparations that they forget to pay attention to the foundation of their relationship. Amidst the beautiful clothes, lavish parties and ceremonies, many important things remain unsaid, leading to problems later on.

Sometimes, after some time of marriage, we realize that we wish we had cleared these things earlier. This increases tension, misunderstandings and fights in the relationship. Therefore, whether it is a love marriage or an arranged marriage, it is very important to talk openly with each other before marriage. Clear communication, especially on issues like financial status, future plans, family expectations, career, children and lifestyle, maintains stability and understanding in the relationship after marriage.

If you are thinking of getting married, keep these things in mind:

1. Do you have the same goals in life? – Before marriage, it is very important to understand what both of you want in life. Do you give priority to your career? Do you have similar views about children? Where do you want to live in the future? In your hometown or somewhere else? If you and your partner have very different dreams and goals, it may be difficult to compromise later.

2. Respecting each other’s opinions – A good relationship is one where both partners respect each other’s feelings, thoughts and decisions. If someone’s opinions are being ignored or their independence is being questioned even before marriage, this could be a warning sign.

3. About salary and expenses – Nowadays most of the couples work. In such a situation, it is important to know about your and your partner’s income, monthly expenses and saving habits. Inflating your salary or hiding expenses undermines trust from the very beginning of the relationship.

4. Truth about loans and debts – If you have an education loan, personal loan or home loan, you should clearly inform about it before marriage. EMI may seem small, but it is not easy to pay it every month. It’s also important to know if your family has any major debts. How will new financial responsibilities be handled after marriage? 5. About transactions and financial help – After marriage, you may often have to provide financial help to relatives or family members. If it is not decided in advance whether such help is to be given or not, and how much is to be given, it may lead to conflict later.

6. Regarding personal savings – Trust is important, but it is not necessary to disclose everything immediately. Your personal savings and future planning can be your own. As the relationship grows stronger, these matters can be discussed. It is important that both partners understand that each person has control over their personal savings and does not have to account for every penny.

7. Health information – If someone has any chronic disease or any special health need, it is better to tell it in advance instead of hiding it.

8. Lifestyle – Eating habits, travelling, social life and daily routine. If there are large differences in these cases, it may be difficult to adjust later.