The magic of the early days of marriage
When a couple gets newly married, they express deep feelings towards each other. At this time, even small things seem important and excitement is evident in the relationship. However, many times people say, ‘Marriage is new, everything will become normal after a few years.’
Changes in relationships over time
This perception of society may seem bitter, but it is true that many relationships change with time. It is common for responsibilities to increase, the pace of life to change and the warmth of relationships to decrease. Sometimes it seems that men do not feel as connected to their partner as before and the distance starts increasing.
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Relationship coach Anjali ji. Kothari and Gorang J. Kothari discusses the topic of why relationships change after a few years of marriage.
Increasing pressure of work and responsibilities
After a few years of marriage, the burden of work, household expenses and family responsibilities increases on men. Many times they do not share their problems and handle everything silently. This stress gradually reduces their energy and confidence, affecting emotional bonding.
mind entangled in responsibilities
With time, the responsibility of taking care of home, work and children increases on women. When the mind is always busy with work and plans, time and mental space for relationships gets reduced. In such a situation, love and romance do not get a chance to flourish.
turning proximity into transaction
Sometimes love and care turn into a kind of transaction, like ‘I did this for you’ and ‘now you should do that for me’. When the relationship turns into this thinking, the connection with the heart starts decreasing.
waiting to take the initiative
Many times one partner stops taking the initiative because he wants the other to make him feel special. When both expect initiative from the other, both feel that perhaps they are not being given that much importance anymore.
Fatigue becomes the biggest wall
With time there comes a time when both the partners get tired of their respective works. One feels that he is constantly giving in, while the other feels that his strength is waning. Amidst this fatigue, there is no room left for closeness and emotional connection in the relationship.
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