When husband and wife share their desires and problems without fear, hesitation and misunderstanding,
So the relationship becomes deeper. Open dialogue not only helps resolve differences,
Rather, it increases trust and intimacy, which becomes the foundation of a happy married life.
Rohit and Neha were married for seven years. From outside everything seemed perfect- ok
Jobs, lovely house, two kids. But gradually an invisible wall was rising between them. While Rohit would bring office stress home, Neha would remain burdened with the responsibilities of home and children. One day Neha made a list in her mind – ‘Those things which I want to say to Rohit but cannot.’ There was everything in that list, from small things to deep sadness. When he mustered up the courage
When the list was shown to Rohit, something happened which none of them had even imagined. Rohit’s eyes became moist and he said, ‘I also keep a similar list hidden in my phone.’ That day, that simple open conversation not only broke down their walls but also gave new life to their relationship. This story is not just of Rohit and Neha, but of every couple who understands that marriage is not just a name for living together, but the art of reaching each other’s heart. Open conversation is the bridge that connects two hearts, the air that keeps the plant of relationship fresh. When
If this bridge breaks or the wind stops, then the relationship starts to dry up, even if it is green from outside.
Can’t be seen.
1. The biggest medicine for loneliness is to speak openly.
The biggest paradox in today’s times is that people feel alone even while living together. Two people may be miles apart, even living in the same house, eating at the same table, sleeping on the same bed. Why so? Because we talk but do not communicate. We’re in the office today
What happened?’ They ask, ‘What is going on in your heart today?’ Don’t ask. Open conversation drives away this loneliness. When you can tell your partner whatever is on your mind. whether that fear
Be it happiness, anger or sadness, you realize that you are not alone. There is a person with you who wants to understand your every feeling and not just listen. This feeling gives depth to the relationship.
2. Candor cuts the roots of misunderstandings
Most of the fights and estrangements are rooted not in big things but in small misunderstandings. For example, a husband may think that his wife does not care about him because she does not put something of his choice in his lunch box, whereas the truth is that the wife has done something out of concern for her health.
Kept healthy. Or the wife may think that the husband does not take her words seriously because he is busy on his mobile, whereas the truth is that the husband is checking important office mails.
Open dialogue eliminates these misunderstandings before they even arise. When you express your views clearly and listen to others without interrupting, the inner conflicts start getting resolved automatically. Remember, a small doubt growing inside the mind can become a huge tree with time, whose roots can weaken the entire relationship.
3. It is important to say a lot even without words
Open communication doesn’t just mean speaking. Sometimes silence also says a lot and understanding that silence is also a part of open conversation. A husband who makes tea himself after seeing the tiredness on his wife’s face is saying without saying anything – ‘I understand your tiredness.’ A wife who massages her husband’s shoulders while he is sitting quietly, without
The words are saying – ‘I can feel your tension.’ Open communication also includes understanding when to speak and when to remain silent and just cooperate. Sometimes a tight hug, a hand held, or just sitting close can mean more than the words we speak. This non-verbal communication makes the relationship even stronger.
4. Honest communication is also important for personal development.
We often think that open communication is only good for relationships, but it is equally important for our own personal growth. Your partner is the mirror that shows you your true face. Without pretense, without false praise. When he lovingly points out your weaknesses or truly understands your strengths, you feel better about yourself.
Able to know properly. Let’s say you think you’re very patient, but your partner
Tells you that you get angry quickly over small things. You may feel bad initially after hearing this, but if it is said with love and concern, it gives you a chance to improve yourself. Similarly, when you praise your spouse sincerely,
If there is, then his confidence increases.
5. This conversation becomes support in difficult times
Life is not always easy. Sometimes there are financial problems, sometimes health crisis, sometimes tension in the family, sometimes ups and downs in career. In these difficult times, if husband and wife do not talk openly to each other, then this crisis seems even more serious. Every person suppresses his sorrow within himself, and this suppressed sorrow takes the form of depression or anger. When you open up, even during difficult times, you find that the burden is halved. Working together makes it easier to find solutions to problems.
6. Easy ways to start an open conversation
Now the question arises that if open dialogue is not a habit, then how to start it?
Let’s do? Some easy methods are-
Start small: Don’t reveal deep secrets right away. the happiest of the first day
Start by telling a strange incident.
Set time: Just spend 15-20 minutes a day just talking to each other.
Keep for.
Learn the art of listening: Conversation means not only expressing your views, but also listening to the other person completely. Don’t interrupt, just listen.
Use the ‘I’ word: Start the conversation with sentences like ‘I feel…’ or ‘I feel…’ instead of ‘You always…’ or ‘You ever…’. This does not give the other person a chance to take a defensive position.
Don’t complain, express a wish: Instead of ‘You don’t spend time with me’ say, ‘I want
I wish we could spend more time together.
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