The bridge is breaking very closely! Distance is necessary to save relationships, say psychologists

Communication is the key, say relationship experts. In other words, the key to all the locks of the mind can be found by talking. Love is easy, maintaining relationships and families is easy. In earlier days, most people used to write love letters. It used to be seen in the past, with great luck, an opportunity to talk to two people would be found in Kapal.

Times have changed now. With the power of social media, you can stay in touch with the person of your heart. What is happening throughout the day, the partner can be informed at the moment. His opinion can be sought on any matter. You can make a video call if you feel like you haven’t seen each other for a long time. If you want to give a gift, you can send it with the help of an online app. As a result, it can be said that the distance has disappeared in every sense. But relationship coaches see a new problem in this situation. Too close (over communication) or the level of breakdown is increasing! There are several reasons to find out why.

1. When a message is sent, how quickly the other person can get online to reply is now the definition of a ‘green flag’. If the partner is not online at the time of need, if one has to wait for a long time for an opinion on something, then the person on the other end gets tired, assumes that the partner is interested in it.

2. Being ‘connected’ all the time has become the only definition of love. As a result, if one forgets to tell the partner what he ate today, what he talked about with someone, then the partner becomes impatient. Feeling rejected. And in this maybe without knowing it creates a distance with the other person. Then break-up is just waiting for time!

3. Introverts, however, have other problems in this situation. There are many who love their partner without a doubt. But likes to spend some time on his own. They don’t want to constantly update others on what they are doing or not. Instead, if you have to answer all the time, you gasp after a while.

But what can be done?
Psychologists say that both parties need to practice patience. Being ‘connected’ is not wrong, but constantly interrogating others, cannot be love. Both should be aware that one relationship should not be suffocated by the other. Above all, go beyond social media and talk face-to-face. It reduces misunderstandings, it is easy to guess the mind of others.