The traditions related to marriage in different countries of the world are very interesting in themselves. At some places, the bride and groom have to perform special rituals before marriage, at other places relatives and friends bless the newly married couple in unique ways. Germany's 'Polterabend' is also one such unique and interesting wedding tradition. In this ritual, the night before the wedding, guests break porcelain utensils, plates and other breakable items by throwing them on the ground. This tradition may seem strange at first glance, but in German culture it is considered a symbol of good luck and happiness and prosperity for the newly married couple.
Polterabend is usually held the night before the wedding. For this, the families, relatives, neighbors and friends of the bride and groom gather. This event usually takes place at or in front of the bride's house. Guests bring with them old porcelain plates, cups, bowls, vases or other items that can be easily broken. The guests break these utensils by throwing them on the ground. The loud sound created by breaking of utensils fills the entire atmosphere with celebration and joy. After this, the bride and groom together clean the pieces scattered on the ground. This is considered the most important part of this ritual.
There is a centuries-old folk belief behind Polterabend. It is believed that the sound of breaking utensils removes negative forces and bad luck and brings good luck in the married life of the bride and groom. A popular saying in Germany is also linked to this tradition that broken utensils bring good luck. This ritual is not seen merely as entertainment, but is considered a symbol of the auspicious beginning of a new married life. Cleaning the pieces of utensils together after they break also gives an important message – husband and wife will have to face the problems and responsibilities that come after marriage together.
Breaking anything is not part of the tradition in Polterabend. Breaking of glass is especially avoided. In German belief, breaking glass is considered a sign of bad luck. Therefore, ceramic utensils are mainly used in this ritual. However, there may be slight differences in the way this tradition is followed in different families and regions.
Polterabend is not just a ritual of breaking utensils. In many places it is celebrated like a small festival. Family and friends organize games, fun activities, and small events for the bride and groom. This pre-wedding celebration also provides an opportunity for relatives and friends to come closer amid food, conversation and laughter. This tradition also has a social significance. While on the wedding day the main focus is on the wedding ceremony, at Polterabend the bride and groom spend time with their close ones in an informal atmosphere. Family and friends use this event to wish them good luck and blessings for their upcoming married life.