In this fast-paced life of the modern era, where everyone is competing to move ahead in their career and pace of life, on the other hand, the number of couples struggling to take the family forward i.e. to attain the happiness of parenthood is also increasing rapidly. Recently, a similar case has come to light in a famous fertility clinic, which has attracted the attention of both the medical world and the society. When a young couple, who had been deprived of the happiness of having children for the last many years, approached a senior Gynecologist and Fertility Specialist (Gynecologist), clinging to the last breath of their hopes, the doctor, along with looking at their medical reports, asked them such a direct question related to their personal and married life that the ground slipped from under the feet of both of them. Usually, patients tell the physical symptoms related to their disease to the doctor, but when it comes to personal moments of bedroom and mutual life, people become hesitant. This question of the doctor was not just a formality, but there was a huge medical reason hidden behind it which ultimately proved to be the key to reaching the real root of his serious problem. What was the real reason for the wife's panic and the husband's silence on this sharp and direct question of the doctor? When the doctor asked a direct question to the couple sitting in the chamber about their intimate life and the level of mental stress, there was a strange silence in the room. The wife became very nervous after hearing this uncomfortable question and expressions of shyness and hesitation were clearly visible on her face, while the husband became completely silent with his head bowed and tried to avoid eye contact with the doctor. Seeing this strange reaction, experienced doctors understood that there was definitely something dark in the lentils and the problem was not just some hormonal or physical disease, but much deeper than that. When the doctor explained to both of them in a very loving and trusting manner that his clinic keeps the personal matters of any patient completely confidential, then the husband opened his mouth and the truth he revealed surprised everyone. The husband admitted that due to excessive work stress, long corporate shifts, the habit of staying awake all night and fatigue after work, the physical and mental connection between them had become almost non-existent for the last several months, about which he was not able to talk openly to anyone. How dangerous is today's modern lifestyle, hustle and bustle and mental stress having an impact on fertility? After this incident came to light, all the fertility experts and psychologists of the country have expressed deep concern over how today's modern and mechanical lifestyle is hollowing out the reproductive health of the youth from within. Husband and wife, who are busy between laptop, mobile screen and office targets from the time they wake up in the morning till they go to sleep at night, do not have any time left for each other, either emotionally or physically. When the body is constantly under the influence of cortisol, the stress hormone, there is a serious disturbance in the body's natural hormonal balance, which has a negative impact on ovulation in women and sperm count and quality in men. The doctor explained to the couple that mere medicines or expensive tests would be of no use unless they addressed this fundamental flaw in their lifestyle. In today's era, more than 50 percent of infertility cases are due to psychological stress caused by bad lifestyle, wrong eating habits and lack of mutual communication. What special advice did the doctors give to the couple to overcome this serious problem and what lesson do they learn? After counseling the young couple, the doctor gave them some very practical and life-changing advice, which is a lesson for every couple who is going through this phase. The doctor first gave them strict instructions to keep mobile phones and laptops completely away from their bedroom so that they could spend quality time with each other. Apart from this, it was advised to walk for at least thirty minutes daily, do yoga, meditation and include fresh fruits and nutritious food in your diet instead of junk food. The lesson from this true incident is that having a child is not just a physical process, but it is the result of a healthy mental and emotional coordination between two hearts and two bodies. When the couple started following these doctor's instructions and gave new time to their relationship, positive changes started coming in their life. This incident is a big message for the society that giving time to your loved ones in your busy life and talking to the doctor openly about any problem without any hesitation is the first and sure shot cure for every disease.
