no need to suppress emotions
Since childhood, many boys are taught that they should not cry, should not be afraid and should remain strong in every situation. When a boy expresses his feelings, he is often considered weak. Because of this, he starts hiding his problems and shy away from expressing his feelings. But is it really necessary to suppress your emotions to become a strong man? Bollywood actor Ishaan Khattar has shared his views on this traditional thinking. His talks offer a new perspective not only on raising boys, but also on understanding relationships like love and marriage.
Does becoming a man mean not being like women?
Ishaan Khattar raised questions on the social assumptions related to the upbringing of boys and said that boys are not taught how to become men, rather they are taught not to be like women.
This mentality reflects the thinking in which boys are prevented from crying, being afraid or expressing their emotions since childhood. When the boy cries, he is called weak and when he shares his problems, he is advised to become strong.
Impact of parenting with a single mother
Ishan told that his mother has raised him alone. This experience helped her understand women and their perspectives.
In childhood, from the family and surrounding environment, children learn how to behave with others and how much importance they should give to their feelings.
If boys are taught from a young age to listen to others, understand their problems and respect them, they can manage their relationships better when they grow up. This understanding is important in love relationships as well as in friendship, family and marriage.
Understanding your partner's feelings
Referring to his career experiences, Ishan said that he has worked with 50 percent women filmmakers in a career spanning almost eight years. Working with different people gave him the opportunity to understand other perspectives.
It is very important to understand each other's point of view in relationships. For example, if your partner is upset about something, taking her problem lightly can create distance in the relationship.
Pressure on men to look strong
Men in society are expected to remain strong in every situation. Due to this pressure, many men are not able to express their sorrows, fears and problems openly.
But being silent in a relationship is not always a sign of strength. Many times, by suppressing the thoughts of the mind, small problems turn into big misunderstandings.
foundation of good relationship
According to Ishaan Khattar, one of the great strengths of cinema is to introduce people to different viewpoints. Understanding the experiences and emotions of others is important not only for art, but also for personal relationships.
Every person's upbringing, thinking and emotional needs are different. Therefore, to strengthen any relationship, merely expressing love is not enough. It is equally important to listen to your partner, respect their feelings and admit your mistakes when needed.