When we go on a date with someone, we survey the person. His general wishes remained. What is his mentality on a particular subject, I think about it the most. It is at this time that we try to understand what the man thinks about his ex-partner.
A survey by dating app QuackQuack polled over 11,000 active users, all between the ages of 20 and 35. Studies show that not only mutual attraction or chemistry, but also emotional consequences are equally important in dating. In particular, how a person views his past relationships can determine his character and outlook on current relationships.
Hence the new terminology of modern dating is the 'x test'. That is, consciously ask the opposite person about their past relationships during the first meeting, and see what the person says about it.
Does he accept any fault or responsibility for why the relationship broke up? Or put all the blame on the ex-partner? Talk about learning from past relationships, or just complain? Is bitterness or anger expressed when talking about the former? That is, understanding what the person on the other side learned from that relationship is much more important than knowing with whom one was in a relationship.
The study calls this tendency 'emotional due diligence'. A dating profile lets you choose your likes and dislikes, showing off your best side on the first date. But when the topic of former relationship comes up, many times people's true mentality is revealed.
Hearing how a man comments about his ex-partner can tell how the man will treat other areas in his personal life. His past history gives a glimpse of how the current relationship will turn out.
As a result, it can be said that the style of dating is changing rapidly. Putting unnecessary emotions aside, most people prefer to see love relationships through the lens of reality.