He left, but he didn’t go, just like no one actually goes…. The loving mind understands how true this line of the song written by Kabir Suman is again and again. Those who could not keep their loved one close despite having a heart full of love feel its meaning deeply. In fact, some people remain deeply even after leaving…on a familiar street, in a familiar song or in a favorite smell. But what if he comes back after many years of keeping him in a corner of the mind? Just like Chandar in ‘Musafir Cafe’, you have to face the lost love? Should you practically reject your current partner and hug your ex tightly like Chandar? Find out how to handle this situation.
‘Musafir Cafe’ has shown that a single heart can create a lifelong bond of love, but it cannot be said. When two people’s dreams diverge, even the most intense love falters. At every moment, those who were together also separate their paths. Two different worlds are created under the same sky for two people. New partners also come. However, the old person remains in a corner of the mind. A corner that no one is allowed to enter. Many people around have faced such experiences. Some have broken up with their ex. Some have pushed them away, some have fallen in love again. But are these desirable? Maybe not.
In this case, it is very important to be honest with yourself. Do you still have the same feelings for your ex? Or is it just an acquaintance? Tell your ex your feelings openly. Even if you keep in touch by hiding your feelings, it can shake the foundation of the current relationship. It is also important to understand what your ex really wants. You can just stay friends, but it is wise not to discuss old times. However, do not forget to meet separately, go out. Remember that this can send the wrong message to your current partner. If necessary, bring your ex and current partner face to face, but do not indulge in a game of hide and seek. This can break up your arranged life.