On the surface, everything seems normal—a relationship, a partner, and a claim of happiness. But a recent survey reveals a new picture of Indian relationships, one in which happiness is accompanied by emotional emptiness. In a survey of 1,510 people in major Indian cities conducted by IPSOS for Gleeden, 92% reported being happy in their relationships, but 57% of respondents admitted to feeling lonely despite being in a relationship. This suggests a significant disconnect between being together and feeling emotionally connected.
Why loneliness?
According to the survey, the biggest challenges in relationships are a lack of communication and emotional connection. 84% expressed satisfaction with their sex life, and 25% said their relationship lacked anything. Despite this, a significant number of people admitted to not feeling fully emotionally connected to their partner.
Extra-marital thinking
The survey also revealed changing attitudes about relationships. 61% of men and 62% of women believe that humans are not naturally designed to remain with a single partner for life. Meanwhile, 69% of respondents said that consensual non-monogamous relationships are gaining more acceptance in society than before.
Who chooses whom?
The survey also revealed interesting patterns regarding the use of extramarital dating platforms. According to app data, men generally prefer women between the ages of 25 and 30. Women, on the other hand, prefer financially stable and established professionals—such as doctors, chartered accountants, or business professionals—rather than age.
The new truth about relationships
The survey indicates that simply being together or physically satisfying is no longer enough in relationships today. Trust, open communication, emotional security, and mental connection are becoming more important than ever.
Why expectations over reality in romance?
Social media is rapidly changing expectations of relationships. According to the survey, 68% of Indians believe that Instagram, Reels, and digital content paint an unrealistic picture of romance, leading people to compare their real relationships to the “perfect” life they see online. Meanwhile, 64% admitted to flirting with others on social media despite being in a serious relationship.
What is the reason for dissatisfaction?
According to the survey, the biggest causes of relationship dissatisfaction are emotional distance, lack of communication, and digital interference. 29% of respondents blamed social media for the breakdown in their relationship.